Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Blog #6: Communication Changes Due to Social Networking

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Communication

Information taken from:

http://networkconference.netstudies.org/2010/04/facebooks-aggregated-news-feed-has-changed-the-way-people-communicate/


The way society communicates has changed drastically due to the introduction of social networking sites like Facebook. Facebook has provided society with the infrastructure to expand people’s social circles. It does this by providing people with a place to stay in contact with every person that they have ever met. Facebook’s aggregated newsfeed has enabled members to receive a consolidated update of their social circles’ lives in just a few moments and without being in physical contact with a single person. The consolidated updates have also, in some cases, led to a behavioural pattern of possessing tendencies to self promote experiences through the newsfeed (Buffardi & Campbell, 2008). This increase of communication without any human contact has led to a number of uncomfortable etiquette issues in both the online and offline spaces. These issues include Facebook’s members addressing what is socially acceptable to know about each other when they meet in an offline space or the “real world”. This constant need for communication has led to people feeling as if they need to be able to communicate anywhere and at any anytime and this has seen the rise of the ‘smart phone’ (AIMA, 2009). As part of research for this conference paper, an online survey was distributed through social networking sites starting with my own contacts on Facebook, Twitter and email. There were one hundred and fifty three respondents with the majority of respondents located in Australia. This survey gathered information regarding how people communicate since the introduction of social networking sites. This conference paper will discuss how Facebook’s aggregated newsfeed has drastically changed the way society communicates.

Communication amongst peers, families, governments and companies is an essential part of a society. Communication can occur in many different forms from face-to-face communication, to mobile communication, online communication, voting or polls, or mass communication (Kotler et al., 2009, p.228). The Collins Dictionary defines communication as “to exchange (thoughts) or make known (information or feelings) by speech, writing or other means” (Collins, 2010). Since the introduction of technology such as social networks and mobile phones communication has been amplified and has become ubiquitous. Much of today’s communication is instantaneous with the delivery of messages being transferred almost immediately. Snail mail has been replaced with emails (Mayfield, 2001), telephone calls replaced with text messaging (Buskirk, 2010) and in some instances face-to-face communication has been replaced with social networking sites (Planeswalker, n.d.). Social networking sites have drastically changed the way people expect to communicate with one another, as people no longer wait days, weeks or months to receive news. Communication has become instantaneous and has enabled people to become more connected than ever before.

Social networking sites like Facebook enable a person to maintain an array of friends in an online setting (Boyd, Ellison, 2007; Kagan, 2008). Facebook allows a person to reconnect with people that they have met in an offline environment or start a relationship with a new person or “stranger” that the person has met only online. According to Robin Dunbar, Professor of Evolutionary Anthropology at Oxford University Britain, humans are unable to maintain meaningful relationships with more than one hundred and fifty people at a time (Hill, Dunbar, 2003). But Facebook has allowed individuals to broaden their social circle from just a handful of people that they see on a regular basis to include old school, college, work and travel friends and any other person that is in their social circle. The survey that was conducted as part of research for this paper showed that Facebook was the most regularly used social networking site. Seventy percent of the people surveyed had a social network that consisted of between fifty to four hundred friends. But in a period of twelve months over half of those people had not seen between fifty to two hundred of those friends in an offline environment. Through social networking sites like Facebook, people have started to expand their social circles but in accordance with Robin Dunbar’s research people are finding it difficult to transfer these relationships into the offline world.

Facebook has drastically changed the way people communicate with one another in particular amongst friends. Facebook’s main focus is about connecting people although you can do a number of other activities on the site such as, reuniting with old friends, sharing photos, organising events, status updates, creating fan pages and buying, selling and trading goods (Nielsen, 2010). When new members first join Facebook they are asked “Are your friends already on Facebook?” (Facebook, 2010). The new member is encouraged to search through their existing email contacts and add any people that they are already connected with. Through these connections Facebook also has the capability to ‘suggest friends’ to the member based on whom their friends are friends with. New members can also complete their education details, which will assist them to build and increase the social circle. Although it must be noted that for any connection to take place the other member must reciprocate that they indeed know the person by confirming the friendship. This process of finding friends through email, school and Facebook suggestion will build the new member’s social network, which will enhance the user’s experience by pre-populating their Facebook home page. This concept of having all of your friends located in one place and accessible at any time is new to society. Previously people would have different groups of friends and use different methods of communicating with them. The implication of having all friends located in one place is that other forms of communication such as phone and text are decreasing in usage. There is also a risk that people not joined to Facebook miss out on aspects of their friend’s lives as they are missing things being posted to Facebook’s newsfeed.

Facebook’s home page is an aggregated news feed of the social network’s status updates and profile updates. At the top of the news feed and the top of every profile, users are asked “What’s on your mind?” in which the member writes a short status update which is then collated into the newsfeed (depending on their privacy settings). This function has led to a rise in self-promotion (Buffardi & Campbell, 2008), where members are posting detailed status updates of what they are up to and in some cases updating their status a number of times during the course of the day (Dubow, 2007). Psychologists have linked the idea of self-promotion on Facebook with narcissistic behaviour (Buffardi & Campbell 2008). According to a survey undertaken by youth marketing firm, Ypulse, sixty percent of college students agreed with the statement “People in my generation are using social networking sites for self-promotion, narcissism, and attention seeking” (Grove, 2009). Where members of Facebook increasingly use the site to promote themselves through updating vivid details of their personal lives, using photos to promote experiences or vanity and increasing perceived popularity through friendship numbers (Buffardi, Campbell 2008). The idea of self-promotion has changed the way people communicate as with the assistance of Facebook’s aggregated newsfeed, details of our personal lives can be communicated as a one to many broadcast system.

The aggregated newsfeed performing as a one to many broadcast system has changed the way people communicate with one another. In a few moments, Facebook members can be exposed to a number of daily activities without actually being in physical contact with a single person. ‘Facebook stalking’ has been coined as a term to explain this phenomenon and it has become so common it can now be found in The Urban Dictionary (2010). It defines ‘Facebook stalking’ as “a covert method of investigation using Facebook.com. Good for discovering a wealth of information about people you don’t actually know”. Facebook ‘stalking’ is not always limited to stalking strangers but can also be associated with constantly checking the news feed to ‘stalk’ what friends are up to. Survey results for this conference paper showed that eighty six percent of people surveyed checked their most regularly used social networking site between one and six (or more) times per day. This constant need to check one’s profile and newsfeed reflects on society’s change in the way communication is taking place. Facebook members can experience a feeling of disattachment from society when Facebook is down or inaccessible (Alder, 2009). Members feel a constant need to check in and find out what people are doing, this has become so apparent that social networking has become a pastime or a recreational event (Ridings & Gefen 2004). This constant need to check one’s newsfeed has allowed Facebook to recently overtake Google as the most visited website on the Internet (Arrington, 2010). This does not indicate that members are socialising in their offline environment anymore or any less but it suggests that people are more ‘updated’ when they are communicating with an online friend in the offline world. ‘Facebook stalking’ has led to people knowing a greater amount of information (or strangers in some situations) which has changed the way people communicate with each other in the offline world.

Facebook’s aggregated newsfeed has affected the natural flow of conversations in the offline world. Previously when meeting with a friend or acquaintance the conversation would flow through a number of predictable questions. These questions would assist in gaining an understanding of the activities or the life events the other person had been effected by since the last encounter such as “how have you been?”, “what have you been up to?”, “how is work going?”, “how are the children?”, “how is the wife/husband?” etc. Now, most of these finer details are posted directly on to the newsfeed and the friend is well aware of these events prior to seeing their friend. The survey results for this paper show that respondents know details about their friend’s lives before seeing their friend in person. Now when they see their friend they would discuss what each other had seen on Facebook. But they felt that even though they receive regular news from Facebook’s newsfeed, to be able to receive a more detailed version of events they needed to make one to one contact. A number of etiquette issues have arisen with the introduction of Facebook’s aggregated news feed becoming common in society. It can be an awkward situation when confronted by a person that is on Facebook in the offline/real world, as members are still negotiating how much information is appropriate to divulge without revealing that they have been “stalking” Facebook. The etiquette of discussing offline or in the ‘real world’ what you have learnt through Facebook about a person, is something that is still being experimented with Facebook members. But it seems that if the person is a close friend than it is acceptable to know of the intricate details of their Facebook postings. If it is an acquaintance or a stranger’s profile that has been stalked than it is best to claim no or minimum knowledge of the other person’s life (Dubow, 2007). Facebook has unknowingly changed offline communication amongst friends from an angle of catching up on latest news to more of a conversation about the updates viewed on the newsfeed and the details surrounding these updates (Dubow, 2007). Facebook ‘stalking’ has changed the way people conduct and structure their conversations with friends, this change has also led to a noticeable decrease in traditional forms of communication.

Being constantly updated with friend’s news has also led to a decrease in communication via traditional methods such as snail mail, text messages, phones and emails (‘Social sites eclipse e-mail use’, 2009). According to the conference paper survey, prior to Facebook being a recreational activity, people used text messages or emails as their main method of communication amongst friends. In 2009, reduction of mobile phone use became apparent to the Australian society, in particular Emergency Services, when two young girls were trapped in a drain and decided to update their Facebook status as a replacement to using their mobile phone to contact Emergency Services. Luckily through their newsfeed posting, their social network was able to contact Emergency Services and obtain assistance (‘Trapped girls call for help on Facebook”, 2009). Eighty percent of people surveyed for this conference paper agreed with the question “Do you think the amount of time you call/email your friends has changed since you started participating in social networking sites?”. This dramatic shift in communication has led to telecommunications companies changing the way they structure their mobile phones to ensure they have the capacity to allow for the inclusion of social networking on the move. The implication of this drastic change has led to people not using their phone to communicate through the use of voice calls but using it as a way to communicate through the use of updating their Facebook profile.

The first communication to take place by way of mobile phone in Australia was in 1987 (Yussuf & Brooks 2007). There are now more mobile phones in Australia than there are people (‘Number of mobile phones now exceeds Australia’s population’, 2008). The reduction of communicating via text messages and mobile phones calls has seen a rise of mobile handsets being updated to ‘smart phones’ by Telecommunication companies. Smart phones are not only able to make phone calls and send text messages but they are able to receive emails and access social networking sites through browser access or application access. The phenomenon of the smart phone first started with the introduction of Blackberry and being able to receive emails out of the office (Middleton, Cukier, 2006). Where Blackberry was typically targeted towards the businessman the Iphone (and other similar smart phones) have revolutionalized this communication method by introducing it to the remaining half of society and by including social networking sites. In a survey conducted by the Australian Interactive Media Association (AIMA) eighty five percent of respondents had used their phone to access a social networking site in the last month and forty six percent of responses were checking their social networking sites through their mobile at least once a day (AIMA, 2009). Indicating that there is a genuine rise of people needing to communicate on the move. Due to communication happening at all times through the use of smartphones, it has changed how frequently people communicate with one another and how quickly this news can be posted and spread through their social network.

This conference paper has shown how Facebook’s aggregated newsfeed has drastically changed the way its members communicate. Members have been given the ability to maintain relationships with every single person that they have ever been in contact with. To assist in this new expansion of their social network, Facebook has provided its members with an aggregated newsfeed to ensure members are kept up-to-date with the activities of other members’ lives. Members have actively adopted this new way of communicating and have started posting numerous amounts of times a day regarding their daily activities. Although the etiquette of the newsfeed has led to some uncomfortable experiences in the offline world with the amount of information one should reveal, it has also led to a feeling of being more updated with their friend’s lives. The newsfeed has instilled a feeling of needing to be able to communicate at all times. Which has led to a rise in smart phones, which enable its users to log onto their Facebook pages through online browser access or direct application access. Facebook and its aggregated newsfeed have drastically changed the way society communicates.

How has Facebook changed the way you communicate. What is something positive and negative about this change or changes? What do you think should be done to people that abuse facebook and use it for bullying and gossip? What punishment should be established?

44 comments:

  1. Facebook changed the way I communicate because it has allowed me to keep in touch with family and friends that I love, but it has also brought drama and turmoil that is unneeded to my life. The positive is the ability to be able to communicate with family that I have all over the country. I rarely get to see them so being able to talk gives me a chance to tell them whats going on in my life. A negative from facebook is the drama. People like to put statuses about each other and say things in messages that they would never say if they were face to face with those people.

    I think its a personal choice to get bullied or not. You can easily just log off of your account and never sign in again. You can make a new one in seconds and never add the people who are bullying you ever again. I think if people are caught constantly bullying or abusing facebook there isn't much you can do. They will make a new one and continue to do the same thing if you delete their accounts. The only way to stop all the drama and bullying is to delete facebook altogether. We know this will never happen because there is too much money being made from everything on facebook.

    The punishment that should be established is nothing. If you want to avoid getting bullied or harassed don't publicly put yourself out there. I feel bad for people who have committed suicide and been discriminated but from these instances people need to learn that the simple way to avoid this is communicate with people in a less public way. Use skype, email, phone, texting, or any other method you can think of. Facebook isn't a necessity. People don't understand that.

    Josh Kellner

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  2. Facebook has changed the way I communicate because it allows me to talk to mulitple people at once that I cannot do in person. The postive change is that I can keep in touch with friends and family that I am very close with and rarely see anymore, but also allows me to see what's happening in the world around me without me actually being there. I have friends back in high school still so when I see their new status or new photos, I can see what's going down in high school while I'm 5 hours north. Also, my friends and family can update photos that I want so I can save onto my desktop. For example, new babies, weddings, and family get-togethers. The negative part is that people share too much details about their life on Facebook that I can see along with others. Then fights break out with tears, drama, and harsh comments. Also, it's a huge way to bully or harrass someone. Kids, even adults, can post comments on other's walls and even start groups that aim at bringing hopelessness, fear, and anger to a certain person.

    People who use Facebook to abuse in a harmful way should be charged with a crime. Anyone who bullies, either online or offline, should be punished not only by the school but by the law. It's the only way to actually decrease bullying. When it comes to gossiping, the person who is beign gossiped about should just delete their Facebook account and never log on again. Then the gossiping will have no effect on the person especially since they'll never see it. With no account, the person who is starting the rumors will find no enjoyment because they will not be receiving the reaction from the victim that they expected.

    I believe the punishment should be some kind of fine and community service for the bare minimal. For the more extreme cases, charges against the court and a bigger punishment including jail time. People are being harrassed and bullied on Facebook all the time and offline too. It's hard to prevent it in school if the victim has no physical proof of the situation, but I believe we can do something about online bullying since the comments and such will forever be online. That's enough proof right there for a conviction.

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  3. I understand that weekly reading and why people think we are freely giving up our privacy. But that is all a personal choice. If someone wants to update their status every 2 minutes saying what they're doing and where they are, then that's just sad and they need a life. Many status's on Facebook are song lyrics or quotes. Not all of them are freely telling the world what they're doing all night. Also, if you need to talk to someone on Facebook, there are private ways to do it so not every one of your friends can see it.

    I don't think you're "missing out" if you don't have a facebook. It's really not a big deal. There are other ways to talk to people and keep in touch. Facebook is just a common way that people chose. To be honest, I don't understand why everyone is freaking out that this is how many people communicate and that they chose to put pictures up for people to see. If there's a picture you don't want people to see then don't put it up. No one really puts anything too private on their facebook. I don't think that just because people have facebook's it is decreasing the use of cell phones and other ways of communicating. I still use my phone a lot and I know many other kids do too.

    I like facebook because I can keep in touch with everyone. I don't always have time to call all my friends so facebook is a nice way to keep in touch with everyone. Also those people who you wouldn't text or call because you're not that close with them. That way, you can still talk to them. I only have three cousins and they live in Minneapolis. Facebook is a nice way to keep in touch with them and see what they've been up to.

    Something positive about the changes in communication is that you can talk and keep in touch with more people. Something negative is maybe all these online and cell phone ways of doing things are decreasing the time people are spending together face to face.

    I think that the people that are getting bullied and harassed on facebook should do something about it before it get's to the point that they become depressed or even commit suicide. I understand that it is hard to stick up for yourself sometimes, especially if you're insecure, but there should be people reading it that should report it to someone. That's what's so messed up- that people can watch stuff like that go on and not do anything about it. Also, I wouldn't be friends with people on facebook that I don't know. If everyone did that, I think the problem wouldn't be so bad. The punishment for the people that do it would depend on the specific situation but it's disgusting and super sad that people do this.

    Kristin Sorensen

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  4. Facebook has drastically changed the way I communicate. The obvious positive changes are being able to keep in touch with my friends and family. One person in particular is one of my best friends Brian, Brian moved to Paris this year and Facebook has been practically our only way of communicating. I can’t call him because of the international calling prices, even text messages cost 14 cents each, he is in a location where his internet is too slow to accommodate Skype and emails can only hold so much space where I can’t see all of his pictures. Facebook has enabled us to continue to talk to each other and stay updated.
    A negative change in my communication would have to be that since I know pretty much what my family is doing I don’t call my aunts, uncles or cousins as much as I should to just “talk”. However, Facebook has enabled me to get email addresses and phone numbers that I didn’t have so I can contact people more regularly.
    I don’t think anything can really be done to cyber bullies, because as josh said they will create a new account and just continue. If you find yourself being bullied on Facebook it is your own responsibility to confront the bully and delete them as your friend because obviously they aren’t your friend.

    Coyer Mackner

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  5. Facebook hasn't drastically changed the way I communicate. I'm able to talk to people from far away easier and faster on facebook than any other way. Also, I'm able to talk to many people at once. This is a good thing because many people can talk at once and see each others views on certain topics and events. I think that this change in communication can be negative because people don't talk face to face as much, but I believe that the use of facebook for communicating isn't a bad thing as long as you limit how much time you're spending online and still make time for face to face conversations too.

    I think that any type of cyber bullying should be reported and that person's account should be deleted. Bullying is never right and people should be punished for it one way or another. Facebook let's people speak freely but anything negative you say about someone else will come back to bite you in the long run. For example, if you post something bad about someone else on your wall, it can have multiple effects including others commenting and defending the victim or employers not hiring you because you don't treat others with respect. It also shows everyone who can see your profile what kind of person you truely are. This is the way I see it; what you post is your decision, but just remember how many people can see it and make wise decisions.

    Tia Lindberg

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  7. Facebook has not drastically changed the way I communicate, but it has changed it. It has opened opportunity's so that I can keep in-touch with friends or family that I am not close enough to see. I still call my family, I don't rely on them to look at Facebook to see what I am doing and to keep them updated. About a year ago I found my best friend from preschool on Facebook. We were best friends until first grade when she moved away. I visited her once and then we lost contact, she kept moving around and I was at an age where I did not really know how to keep in contact with her. Until a year ago when she found me on Facebook. I just talked to her yesterday and she said that she might come up and visit me. Facebook can be a positive because of keeping in touch with friends, especially since I'm in college so I can look at their profiles and see how they are doing by "posting on their wall." But that can also be a negative because you would not know who is looking at your profile.
    If it happened to me, I would just delete them and not worry about it. If it was to a point where I was getting depressed I would just delete my whole Facebook account. Bullying will never be completely gone. Whether it is cyber bullying or just the old school bullying.

    Facebook is all about what you want people to see. If you don't want people to make fun of you or get the wrong idea about you, then don't have a Facebook, or don't put anything on there that you don't want people to see. People will do whatever they want on Facebook and thats how it will be because it is a social network. There is no way to change it. So as a punishment to those who bully others through Facebook- there isn't one, and I don't really think there can be. People say a lot of stupid things, yes they should be smarter about what they put on Facebook because it is a very public site. But there is mean people out there and if they wanted to get their thoughts out they will find a way. So if you want to say stupid things it just gives yourself the reputation.
    Katelyn Geib

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  8. As a person who uses Facebook regularly, I found this article and the weekly reading article to be very interesting. I would have to say that in some ways Facebook has changed the way in which I communicate. However, because I now live far from my friends and family, without Facebook I may lose communication with some individuals all together. Recently, I have noticed that I do not send text messages or call people nearly as much as I used to. I attribute this to Facebook. While this is true, I disagree with how the article said when meeting with friends the beginning questions of catching up will be eliminated. Just because I am more updated on my friend's life due to Facebook does not mean that I won't ask them how they are doing and what is new when we are meeting face to face. Most people do not share everything about themselves or their life on Facebook and, even if they do, I will not assume this is the total story and I will always ask how they are and what is new in their life.
    With Facebook I am able to communicate with many people at a time much more quickly than any other type of communication. This is a good thing because I am able to keep in contact with friends that I would maybe otherwise lose contact with. This can also be a bad thing because I believe face to face conversations are very important and though I still have them and plan them regularly, some people are losing them all together because of social networking.
    I think those that those who abuse Facebook should have their accounts deleted and be unable to create a new account. Bullying is not something to take lightly. It is worse when the bullying takes place online rather than in school because this means kids, or even adults, cannot escape bullying in the safety of their own homes. I believe gossip is a completely different topic. Gossip is the result of events or instances that take place most of the time. If you put up a picture or post something that is questionable, people will talk about it. This is where the ultimate message is on how I see Facebook. Anyone can see what you put up or what you post. If you don't want others talking about it or seeing it then do not put it up. People often times are ignorant to this fact and that is when they get into a serious issue such as not getting hired for a job they are interested in.
    Michelle Fischer

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  9. Michelle,

    You have made an excellent point and I would like to comment on it. Bullying is not something to be taken lightly and people that are experiencing bullying through facebook or other social networking cannot escape it even in the safety of their own homes. Everyone should have the right to a facebook account, but no one should have the right to use it in a way that hurts others. Period. No one allows bullying to happen to them freely. It is something that just happens. I was bullied in school. I was threatened and tormented and on a few occasions, I was physically hurt. Would not have been going to school been the solution? No, they would only have won. Did I ask for it by being at school? Of course not. Simply deleting your account would not be the solution. The damage has been done and the pain has been felt.

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  10. I originally never had or wanted a Facebook account. The reason that i chose to make an account was because it was nearing the end of high school and i wanted to be able to stay in contact with the friends that would be going to college away from me. Also another positive to having facebook that i have realized is that i can keep in contact with my family that is spread arund the entire country.
    The friends that i have are people that i know i will talk to and want to communicate with. These people are mainly family and close friends from high school or the place where i lived when i was younger.
    A negative about facebook is the drama like Josh said. Too many people post things publically now for everyone to see. These things have always been said, thats just a given, but in the past they kept private. for example; the UMD incident- that would have been said most likely but in the past it would have been written as a note, texted to other individual, or talked about after class.
    Again i would agree with josh on the punishment. There really is nothing that can be done to those who abuse the use of facebook. The only that could be done is if the bullying were bad enough and document by the person being bullied they could try to take it to court as a possibly harassment charge. This is a very rare occurance though and will prob fail in most cases sadly. That can also be seen as a punishment for abusing Facebook.

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  11. I think Facebook has changed the way I communicate a little bit, not as much as many other people. In the sense that, I still call my family members to see how there doing, but it does help me keep in contact with my cousins who live far away. I think one positive to Facebook is the many different things you can do on it, and how many friends you can have and contact with. Because now a days many people own some type of cell phone, and it’s a lot easier to have 500 or 600 friends that you can contact on Facebook at anytime then trying to have 500 or 600 phone numbers in ones cell phone ha. Facebook I think gives people a lot of contacts and chances to get a hold of people. Another positive to Facebook it makes things less awkward. If you want to ask someone out on a date or to ask for homework help from someone this is really a positive if people are really shy. This isn’t a positive for me because I’m a going out person and wouldn't be afraid to ask something like that. But there are people who are self conscious about themselves. I think the biggest negative is the things that are said to one another on Facebook. It is a lot easier to say things that are hurtful on Facebook then to ones face. The old saying “Sticks and stones will break my bones but words will never hurt me”. Well now with Facebook when one person has 700 friends that can look at what you said and most of the time its personal it can be hurtful. I don’t really think much can be done about it being said when it is first posted. But if it gets reported and if one person gets like 2 reports then they should be kicked off of Facebook through there IP address. Because it’d be easy for a person to create a new Facebook, but if there interest address is locked and you cant access it through that then that might work. I think the bullying and gossip is always going to be there, that’s going back to the blog about culture. We just don’t all share as Americans the same amount of respect everyone deserves. So no matter what we try doing on Facebook and in real life there is always going to be those people who bully and start drama within. The punishment should be kicked out of the network or put a hold or lock on there account until they write a letter or apology to Facebook headquarters or something.

    Jake Turkowski

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  12. I agree with Josh when he said being bullied is a personal choice on Facebook. Because you have the opportunity to delete your Facebook and never go on the networking site again. Facebook can not stop the bullying, what is said is what is said that’s all there is to it. It takes minutes to create a new Facebook and to add only people you are comfortable with. If you know someone is bullying you on Facebook, simply sign off or delete them as a friend.

    Jake Turkowski

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  14. Facebook isn’t something in my life that I need. I mean it is nice to have, but it is definitely not a necessity. The way that I use Facebook is to see what other people are up to and what events are going on back home. I know that it sounds a little creepy but I can promise that I am not a stalker. Another thing that I use Facebook for is to keep in contact with my family and friends while I am away at college.
    When it comes to Facebook many of the positives can easily be turned into negative. It all depends on how you use your Facebook. A positive of this social network is that it allows people to connect no matter how far away they are. I can probably bet that most the people here at CSS used Facebook to connect with their roommates and get to know one another before they got to school. Now a negative of Facebook is that once you post something it is in the World Wide Web FOREVER!!!! Some people could see this as a positive thing, but I see it as a negative because people can basically type your name into a search engine and find out your life story including your current location.
    I think that it is absolutely terrible how people can say such awful things about other people on Facebook. To me, bashing someone on Facebook is about as low as you can go because the entire world can see what you are saying about a specific person it is no long just between a couple people. For people that resort to cyber bullying and get caught doing it should be charged with misdemeanor/felony charges. I have heard way too many cases where someone’s life has ended in tragedy because of some words that were posted on Facebook. So that is why I think that misdemeanor/felony charges because no one should be let off the hook when they are caught cyber bullying.

    Maggie Carlson

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  15. I agree with Josh, Kristin, Coyer, Kyle and Jake with the idea about bullying. Yes its obviously not a fun or good thing in any way, but its going to happen. They're Facebooks should be deleted and should be reported. People need to watch what they say because it is a public network, and whatever you say doesn't go away.
    Katelyn Geib

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  16. I like what Kyle had to say about my comment. You could bring it to court but what would that really accomplish. I think a smart well educated person would just say its your fault for putting your self in the position to be bullied. Would court really make you feel better after be harassed? I do not believe so. If you ever have a problem with facebook. DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT. It may be heartless of me to say I don't feel bad for someone getting made fun of, but in reality you have the power to stop everything with one click of a button

    Josh Kellner

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  17. Facebook has definitely changed the way I communicate, in a positive way I stay connected with my parents and my little brother allot more then usual, we share pictures and it keeps us going. I still call them but when I'm to busy and have no time to pick up the phone, I will send them a wall post. In a negative way, I believe Facebook takes allot of my attention off of studying and thats not good. I personally think that people who abuse Facebook should be deleted, because its not made for people to discourage each other. Also it makes me sick when I see younger kids posting negative disturbing words. It's a shame to read it, so I delete those that do so. Personally I believe that if you see bullying or nasty gossip, the cops should be notified and that kid should get into some trouble. There's no need for another suicide or murder over social networking. That's how I feel about social networking in this generation.

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  18. Maggie-


    I so agree with your post, the felony part is a good way to look at it. They need to be disciplined in some way and I wouldn't feel sorry for that individual at all. It's their fault for bullying, especially over the internet where their whole school could see. That's just harsh! So yes, I agree with your idea on disciplining

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  19. I used to have a facebook account, in fact I probably made my original before nearly anyone knew about it at all. Anyhow, when I did use it, it DID change how I communicated. The positives were that I could stay in contact with a lot of people & even people who were very far away. That was convenient, of course. Unfortunately, it also caused some negatives. There was a devolution of communication in my non-virtual life. I was focused on the computer for such long amounts of time that I missed out on other things that went on within my family & group of friends. It was an addiction. Something that the article brought up was increased narcissistic attitudes. I can say that in was involuntary, but I indeed DID focus on myself more. The whole question of "What's on your mind?" prompted me to become a status update addict (& this happened on every networking website I used to be a member of). I see this happen to SO many people & they don't even realize it. We've become such a selfish society & no one understands why. I will be the first to admit that I am FAR from selfless, but it always bothered me to be so self-centered. It didn't fit with who I wanted to be, I just didn't know why I felt that way, until recently. Anyway...In leaving those networking sites, I feel like I've returned to reality & have been able to refocus my energies. I'm nowhere near perfect, but I think people should take a step back from the computer & think about what they're really spending their time doing.
    As for those who abuse Facebook, there is little we can do about that aside from restricting their access. I think that this problem will not go away because Facebook promotes this so much. It tells us to share what we feel & soon we are coerced into a trust, a feeling that we can & should share everything we think about something. "Freedom of expression" they call it. Where is the limit of what you can say, even if it hurts someone? I'm sorry if anything I say offends anyone, but I'm bringing up points that most people will run from or ignore. It IS important & SHOULD be thought about & pondered. Bullying will remain prominent within Facebook, I can guarantee that. There is no punishment that will make people stop because they will argue that you're "taking away their rights." The point I want to make is that when something has this much of a negative effect upon society (promotion of narcissism, loss of effective communication, shamelessness, etc.), that something should not be around. The well-being of the society is more important than the entertainment & any of the benefits of that something. This may be very contrary to what the majority believes, but think about it. I bring up these points not to attack anyone, but to ask people to reflect. Ask yourself WHY you do what you do. Punishment of something that is in & of itself punishment (by degrading society so much that it causes such negative things) won't be conducive. Ah well.

    Mary~

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  20. Honestly facebook really hasnt changed the way i communicate at all. I mean yeah i talk to my friends on there, but all the close family or friends that I have are within driving distance or a phone call. So i dont really need it for that. There are some postive things to facebook though. I have fun and entertaining conversations with my friends. Also i can see where people are coming from with talking to family and what not. It's also a great place to be invited to certain events or join groups for certain things. There are some negatives though. For example the whole facebook "creepin" thing isnt very cool. Also the cyber bullying is absolutely rediculous. For one it hurts people terribly bad and is cowardly.
    People who do the cyberbullying should be prosecuted the fullest for what crime they have commited. Even all smaller scale cases they should be kicked off faceboook and should be put on probation or something. It also is N
    OT a choice to get bullied or not. People dont choose to get bullied or not and its not a matter of just logging off your account. Just Saying. Also its just not about deleting your account once you get bullied its not just going to go away by deleting your account.

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  21. I have to say I disagree with pretty much everything Josh has to say. I dont know how it's a personal choice to get bullied or not. It's not like you log onto facebook and say "Hey I want to get bullied today" It's not like once you delete your account your bullying problems just magically go away. You still know what was said about you, and people will still be talking about it. People dont choose to be bullied some people are just ignorant and have to put someone else down to make themselves feel better.

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  22. Even though I am a frequent Facebook user, I don’t think Facebook has drastically changed the way I communicate. However I do think it has varied the way I communicate in some ways. Facebook allows me to keep contact with all my old high school friends, or team members from my past. I truly believe if I didn’t have Facebook I would lose contact with old friends. Facebook also is a good way to stay in touch with family members, and see how they have changed if you haven’t seen them in a while. I do have to agree a lot of bad drama and bullying happen.

    I think it depends on how much a person puts them selves out and into the world, but I do think to many people put thing on the internet that don’t belong on it. Some people need to grow up and if they need to say something about someone or something they should bring it up to the peoples face. It is really hard to stop bullying in school since there is not usually prof. Since there is physical prof online I think we can do something to help stop it. Maybe we could not allow anyone that is bullying to have a Facebook, because it should not be used for a negative way like that. I’m not really sure how we would do that, or what punishment people would get. However there has to be a way to help the people getting bullied, and reduce the number of suicides caused by bullying.

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  23. Facebook has changed the way I communicate with people in many different ways. The positives are that I am able to stay in touch with old friends and family members that live far away. I can talk to my friends just by the click of a button which makes everything very convenient, and i also can update my friends and family about how I am doing by showing them my pictures and updating my status. The negatives are that Facebook tends to cause a lot of drama. Not necessarily Facebook itself but if people are fighting they will do it over Facebook. Another negative is that it can be really addicting, i'm sure most people check it more than once a day and it kind of becomes an everyday thing. This is bad because it takes away from actually getting your homework done and being with people face to face rather then over the internet. For people that bully kids on Facebook I think that they should be punished. I am not sure how they should be they should be punished or how they could be because i feel like you can't really get caught on the internet unless someone reports them. If the bully ends up making a kid lead himself to suicide then i think they should be charged with first degree murder. There is no acception to cyber bullying.

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  24. Through Facebook I have found numerous ways to communicate. Whether it be by having a full conversation with a long-distance relationship, or sending a quick message to confirm when to meet for lunch. It has allowed me to be with friends and family even when they cannot physically be with me. I can hear about the highlights of their day even when I'm not with them. It has also made me susceptible to it's negative abilities, though. For instance someone may post news that is hurtful to myself or others. In this way Facebook allows users to hide behind a scream rather than face-to-face conversations that could possibly be resolved through true verbal conversation.

    It is up to users to allow something such as Facebook to cause them hurt or to become a victim of abuse by means of it. Anyone can avoid it, all it takes is closing than internet page. Sadly internet abuse occurs more often then thought. It is usually a policy that if these types of programs are being abused then the abuser will be reported to the site and their account will be shut down. Unfortunately this rarely happens and if so it is a matter of minutes for someone to create a new email in order to set up a new Facebook page. It is the responsibility of the abused to take it into their command, or even a witness (you wouldn't sit back and watch someone getting kicked on the ground, why would you allow virtual bullying openly happen?) I personally think it is up to these people to take it into their own hands and report it to a higher authority just as if it had happened face-to-face. I would also support some kind of legal penalty. Anywhere from community service to jail time depending on the severity.

    A punishment for virtual bullying would always include loss of privileges. By this I mean, the bully would no longer have access to an email account and social networking site of any sort. Any violation of this would result in extension of probation or jail time. No matter the severity a court date would be set. Virtual bullying would be a legal matter and in bullying you would be violating the law.

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  25. Facebook has changed the way I communicate because by using facebook I have become more into online chatting with friends, and less into calling my friends directly. Not only that but through facebook I can keep in touch with family and friends. I can share pictures and tell them what I am doing. Facebook makes communication easier and allow me to tell how I feel to my friends. However the bad thing about facebook is that it is not always private and once you put up information up anyone can look into it whether you want them to or not. Facebook has cause lots of cyber bullies, and even leading to suicide. The internet in general is a dangerous place to be, and facebook has make it more dangerous through the fast sharing of photos, and chatting. . Not just that but for some people facebook, makes them feel popular just to have lots of friends on there, or just to have an account makes them feel good. The internet is just too popular to be stop now, it has been incorporated into our lifestyle that we just can't all suddenly stop.I believe that for those who use facebook to the negative extent in which they bullie other or gossip should be punish to the fullest extent. Anyone who cause other to suicide or hurt themselve should be punisih by law to the fullest extent, for they themselves deserve no respect for hurting other. This is a big controversial issues due to how your privacy can be seen by other, but by now everyone must understand anything you put online is not really private and thus must know their action. Punishment depends on how harsh the results of their bullying leads to. If its small harmful results than only community service with a couple time in jail, but if it lead to someone's death it should be treated as a serious case, which could potentially leads to more years in prison.

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  27. Quoting Jake T:
    "It takes minutes to create a new Facebook and to add only people you are comfortable with. If you know someone is bullying you on Facebook, simply sign off or delete them as a friend."

    My reply:
    You may be able to make a new account, but is that realistic? No one can just "make a new account" in life. If you get bullied in life, you can't just erase the comment & even in cyberspace, the comment may be deleted, but it's made its mark upon your heart. Some people aren't sensitive, but many people can get hurt by what may seem like the smallest insult. People have the right to be there & not be hurt, but that clearly won't happen. Too many people have become accustomed to saying whatever they want, without consideration. What is the limit?

    Mary

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  28. Face book has changed the way that i communicate in a positive way. On facebook i can keep in touch with my friends and family. They can all send me messages, can look at pictures of me when ever they chose and i can do the same. Biggest positive thing that has happened on facebook to me is finding my real father and the other half of my family. It will be hard for me never to like facebook because of that reason. One thing about this web site that grinds my gears is that i am on their too much. It is a waste of time alot of the time. Even while doing this assignment I have checked it twice. This happens with any home work on the computer given to me.
    The stories of people who abuse this websaite are very tragic and they should be punished for what they do. How to punish them though is tough. Some one can go on another persons profile and say these things also. It should be treated like any normal public place in the sense that you can report things that people say to a person of athority. I never here something good come from this site. The way i communicate has not suffered. I still prefer talking face to face but in this busy world that does not always work.

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  29. "Since there is physical prof online I think we can do something to help stop it." in responce to
    Maggie-

    She is saying that the proof is their in front of our faces and we can stop it. What she said is very true but the sad fact is it will still happen either way. We can try to have it happen less though and thats worth fighting for. Bullying is such a over looked thing these days. If a person sets out to bully and tease someone they will and most the time receive no punishment for it.
    Being that bullying can cause people to hurt and kill them selves. Hearing several stories this month it makes one wonder why it keeps happening and that their is so little out their to stop it from continuing.

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  30. Josh,
    I totally agree that Facebook should be deleted all together, but like you said, the chance of that happening is very slim. Drama is a big part of Facebook and it is something that gets to be very annoying and it is the drama that gets people into trouble. However I do not agree with not having any punishment for those who cause the trouble on Facebook. With everything being online it is very easy to find out who is doing the harassing, so in that case I believe that the harassers should be punished for what they do.

    Maggie Carlson

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  31. Josh,
    You made several great comments to why we use facebook, and how its an easy form of communication to keep in touch now a day. However for your comment on bullying I disagree with you, anyone who bully other should not be taking lightly. By quitting your facebook account or ignoring the bullying will not solve anything. Once someone start cyber bullying you they will not stop so by this, I feel there should be some form of punishment for those who bully other online. Most importantly are those who causes other to suicide, these cases should have no tolerance for the bullie and maximum punishment must be apply. Only by this will some bullie open their eyes to stop.

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  32. In response to Monica's comment, " Everyone should have the right to a facebook account, but no one should have the right to use it in a way that hurts others." People use social networking sites to communicate and to hide. It is easier for people to communicate over the internet; they have the time to think about what they will say rather than if it were in a verbal conversation. It also allows for people to bully more effectively. Monica's entire comment explained exactly how bullying won't go away. I'm saying it's much easier for the bully to attack someone consistently and in a more aggresive way, sadly. What they say on the internet can hurt tenfold due to the fact that the bully will think of the meanest thing to say. It's sad to know that people are out there doing this all the time when they could just rise above the immaturity to truly be the better person.

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  34. Facebook has changed the way I communicate with people. It has allowed me to reconnect with family all over the country. I will say that I don't use it as much as most people. I hate when people start facebook disputes and other childish issues over the internet. Most people would never say those things to my face if I was standing right in front of them so I don't know why they would criticize me over the internet. I think facebook causes as many as issues as it does positive things. If you are smart you will only add people that you know and actually want to talk to. I made the mistake of adding some people I didn't know well enough personally. One thing led to another, and I eventually ended up deleting them. This made me learn my lesson on adding people I don't know.
    People turn Facebook into what they want to. If they feel like sharing everything their doing on it, then so be it. Otherwise, there are still people that use it for what it was created for; keeping in touch with the people you really care about. With concerns to bullying, it's unfortunate that it happens. It really is. However, we can't control others actions- we can only control our reactions. If the cyber bullying begins the person targeted needs to do something about it- calling the cops, whatever it takes. The cops themselves need to step it up too and take the necessary actions to stop the bullying from happening.

    Maria

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  35. Sher, I like the comments you made about how Facebook makes it easier to communicate with friends and family not only with information, but pictures and everything. Also, the points you made about cyberspace are important (Mary also made this point). Just because a comment is deleted of a page, doesn't mean it's completely gone. Anything that is put into the internet remains there forever. We always take that as such a bad thing though. Can't it be a good thing? If a bully makes a nasty comment, deletes it, and thinks everything is okay; we can now pull it up and prove that the comment was said. There are pros and cons to every aspect of Facebook!

    Maria

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  36. Mary's comment back to Jake T, "If you get bullied in life, you can't just erase the comment & even in cyberspace, the comment may be deleted, but it's made its mark upon your heart." This is so true and I think that bullies out there should realize this. What they are doing is really hurting people no matter how small of an insult they may think it is. When you hurt someone else it affects them more than you will ever know.

    Tia Lindberg

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  37. Maria said, “I learned my lesson” after she had an incident on Facebook. I do believe that you learn from your mistakes on Facebook, but sometimes it’s too late. Facebook is a learning experience and it’s a time where we should stop and think what we are doing. There may also be instances that we have to learn from others’ mistakes and take their word for it. Facebook could get someone in serious trouble, but it is all based on your decisions. What you want to share with others is all up to you and no one else. This is what a lot of the blogs are saying and I agree.

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  38. I really liked how Maggie C put by saying, "I think that it is absolutely terrible how people can say such awful things about other people on Facebook. To me, bashing someone on Facebook is about as low as you can go because the entire world can see what you are saying about a specific person it is no long just between a couple people." If you think about the reason why people start to talk bad about someone else on facebook is because they aren't a strong enough person to say it in the real life situation. I kind of think that facebook is like a wall for some people because if they say something behind a wall they can't get hurt. I think if you have something to say you should confront the person one on one or just forget about the whole situation.

    Maggie Dolan

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  39. Reply to Kayla

    The positive ways facebook has changed your communication life is very similar to mine. I totally agree with the keeping in touch, and maybe sometimes you dont have the time to always pick up a phone and have a full conversation and you just want to pop on the computer real quick and post a wall post or something. I totally agree with that. And with the negatives I do find myself on facebook when I am supposed to be doing my homework, It is a very good source of distraction. With the younger kids on facebook using words they should not be using is disturbing, but also for the older age group as well. People do judge you from what you post on facebook and some people the age of 18 and so wont get a job just because of words they posted or pictures because that company doesn’t want that reputation for their employees. And I do agree if harassment is going on that a cop should be notified and taken into consideration of some sort of trouble.
    Nikki Darker

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  40. Coyer,

    I can completely relate to what you said about your friend who moved to London. I became very good friends with a foreign exchange student my senior year of high school and now, Facebook is the only way we are able to communicate. If it wasn't for Facebook, we probably would not still be in touch. This fact in itself makes me thankful for Facebook, even though I am aware there are plenty of negatives that go along with it.
    Michelle Fischer

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  41. To Jhorn:

    I completely agree with what you said about how the bullies should get the worse punishment possible. Their is should be no exception whatsoever because cyber-bullying can lead to suicide as we saw in thiose videos in class.

    Krista York

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  42. I completely agree with what Katelyn said about
    Facebook is all about what you want people to see. If you don't want people to make fun of you or get the wrong idea about you, then don't have a Facebook, or don't put anything on there that you don't want people to see.

    It's your choice what people see on the internet. There are some things that probably should just stay off Facebook. People usually know what to put on and what to keep off. That way, you have more control to what people can judge/ see of you.
    Kristin Sorensen

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  43. Facebook has positively changed my communication by making it easer to contact and keep in touch with my cousins who live in Canada. Facebook is also another way to make communication quicker and more instant for us. Negative changes would be, I lose actual face-to-face conversation with many of my friends and family due to the use of facebook, and shared pictures can cause conflict that will only be settled online rather than face-to-face.

    Bullying is such a huge, often unnoticed, issue that I cant even begin to think of what could help prevent it on something so popular and nationally large as facebook. I guess you could say the usual, if anyone sees the bullying it needs to be reported. That obviously doesn’t work because bullying continues to grow and escalate. Gossiping and bullying is unavoidable (due to the lack of concern on most peoples part) so the only thing we can do is give consequences to the careless bullies. As far as punishments go I think the person who is bullying should face large sentences. Have all cyber connection taken away (including cell phones), weekly counseling, and, depending on severity, jail time. The bully will eventually get their electronic and cyber privileges back and counseling will not be needed as the bully overcomes their reasons to bully and harm other people.

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  44. I soooooooo agree with monica when she said everyone has the right to a facebook account but nobody has the right to use their account to harm others!! Thats a perfect way to put it.

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