Tuesday, September 25, 2012

The Breakfast Club takes place at an Illinois high school, where five dissimilar students are sentenced to spend a Saturday detention session together. In attendance is a "princess" (Ringwald), an "athlete" (Estevez), a "brain" (Hall), a "criminal" (Nelson), and a "basket case" (Sheedy). These titles identify the roles the students play during the school week. Because of stereotypes and status levels associated with each role, the students want nothing to do with each other at the outset of the session. However, when confronted by the authoritarian detention teacher (Gleason) and by eight hours of time to kill, the students begin to interact. Through self-disclosure they learn that they are more similar than different. Each wrestles with self-acceptance; each longs for parental approval; each fights against peer pressure. They break through the role barriers and gain greater understanding and acceptance of each other and of themselves. They ultimately develop a group identity and dub themselves, "The Breakfast Club."





1. Discuss the group's developmental stages.



The developmental stages of forming, storming, norming, and performing can be seen in the movie. The group is formed because each student has broken the school rules; they are together because they are all serving detention (except for Allison, who at day's end admits she is there because she had nothing better to do). During the storming stage, both types of social tension are exhibited. Primary tension can be seen in Claire's statement that she doesn't "belong here." It is also evident when Brian gives up his seat to Bender and in Allison's nail biting. Examples of secondary tension include Bender's antagonistic exchanges with Claire, the shouting matches between Bender and Andrew, and Allison's strange outburst during Claire's disclosure about her parents.



Mr. Vernon attempts to set explicit norms by stating that there is to be no talking, no moving, and no monkey business. However, this attempt to establish norms is unsuccessful because the norms are not accepted by the group. Implicit norms develop in the group, such as yelling, questioning, disrespect for authority, and, most notably, self-disclosure. Many of these norms are initiated by Bender, which points to his power, status, and leadership in the group.



Regarding performing, the group ultimately accomplishes its explicit task--writing a detention essay--by assigning it to Brian. The group also has a number of less-explicit goals that it achieves. The most obvious is that they successfully kill eight hours of detention with a minimum of boredom. They perform many of the functions of an encounter group, learning about themselves and each other through intimate self-disclosures. They also band together in a variety of rebellious acts, from roaming the halls to smoking pot. All of these acts suggest a level of "groupness" that develops in a few short hours.



2. What factors contribute to the group's cohesiveness?



The first factor leading to the group's cohesiveness is the amount of time and interaction they have with each other. While time alone does not insure the development of cohesiveness, the group has nothing else to do and plenty of opportunity to talk. After weathering some primary and secondary tension, the group starts to congeal when it identifies a mutual enemy: Mr. Vernon. An early indicator of group identity emerges in Bender's use of "we" as he asks, "Why don't we close that door? We can't have any party with Vernon checking us out." They begin to perform as a group after Bender removes the screw from the door leading to Vernon's office. The other students cover for him when Vernon comes back asking, "How did that door get shut?"



Cohesion is further developed through self-disclosure. Bender gets Claire to self-disclose about her feelings toward her parents. Andrew then turns and asks Bender to tell about his parents. This discussion is critical to the development of cohesion because the group members begin to see the similarity of their struggles and they identify with each other. Later, the group pressures Claire to confess her virginity. An embarrassed Claire calls Allison "bizarre" for lying to force the confession. Andrew replies, "We are all pretty bizarre. Some of us are better at hiding it, that's all." This marks another point of similarity: they all protect their self-concepts by putting on faces in line with the expectations that others have for them. Andrew describes his struggle to live up to his father's athletic expectations and Bender tells of his father's abuse. Thus, two very different characters find common ground, typified by Bender's comment to Andrew: "I think my dad and your dad ought to get together and go bowling."



As they band together to fight against mutual enemies--parents, peer pressure, authority figures, stereotypes, boredom--the Breakfast Club develops into a highly cohesive group.

QUESTIONS!

What stages do you predict your group will go through? How do you see your group developing group-cohesiveness? Do you think self-disclosure will help your group bond? What about the class as a whole? 

RESPONSE REQUIRED!

Disclosure is important in team building. Disclose 5 things about yourself that you feel are important about you to your group members. It does not have to be something confidential, just something unique and special about you! What label would you give yourself? What label do you think others would give you?

We will work on the rest of this assignment after we have completed the film.

32 comments:

  1. I think our group will go through all the stages on some level. We will be forming, as most of us don’t know each other that well and it will take a little time for everyone to feel a bit more comfortable. Storming is definitely a possibility because we aren’t all the same person and who doesn’t have a fear of exposure or failure within a group. We might have different ideas of how we want things to happen, how work should be accomplished, or who should be leading, which could result in some minor conflict. These issues are resolvable through listening and being respectful and open-minded. Eventually we should reach the Norming stage, where we are able to discuss topics more openly with each other on some level at least. Hopefully, we will be able to have meaningful discussions about the topic at hand and ask each other questions more comfortably. In the end of this stage I hope that we understand and know each other on a personal level, not just as peers. That doesn’t necessarily mean we have to be friends, which isn’t a bad thing, but nevertheless we should at least be aware of who they are as person. In the last two stages, Adjourning and Performing, we can go either way. It all depends on how well we have connected with each other through self-disclosure among other things. Ultimately, if we feel comfortable with each other then I think we might achieve the stage of performing. Of course, these are just my thoughts. Who know what will happen.

    I guess I would label myself as more of a loner? I don’t know, I like working in groups and I like people, but usually I just do stuff by myself. Honestly, I am not sure what other people would label me as. Tall? Quiet? I don't know.

    1. I happily live with my parents.
    2. I took PSEO classes when I was in high school.
    3. I enjoy all kinds of food.
    4. I used to play football and baseball in middle school.
    5. I don't have a car or my license; I take the DTA everywhere or get rides from people who offer them.

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    1. Paul,

      I definitely agree with what you said about it taking a little while, but eventually we will be close with our group members and classmates. Even though there is bound to be some conflicts over how things get done in our groups, I can’t imagine that it would result in anything terrible. Like you said, it will most likely be minor things. You gave great suggestions on how to resolve these conflicts! Eventually, when we do reach the norming stage, I think you are exactly correct—not only will we be able to communicate effectively, but also we will have meaningful and productive conversations. Lastly, I thought it was great that you added that we might not all be friends, but we will at least be trusting in each other, and we will be comfortable around those people.

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  2. I believe that my group is going to be just like the breakfest club in the extent that none of us are alike. I can see us all froming and meshing together, that it makes me excited to be in a group witht them. The stages I feel are going to start off tough with tryong to get us all to be able to meet, but will progessivly get better as time goes on. I think our group cohesiveness will come when we get to know each other better and the struggles we have face. Just like the breakfest club, when you work together you grow that bond together. I strongly believe that self-disclosure will help us bond not only as a group but as a class. Because not everyone is perfect and people like to hear that you have overcame the same struggles they have. It makes people not feel so alone, and more willing to help.

    I am not sure what others would lable me as, but I am like the girl version of a jock. I also think girls look at me and lable me as a spoiled brat that they wouldn't get along with. I will admit sometimes I come off the wrong way but that is not me at all.

    1. I enjoy eating food all the time
    2. I love watching and playing every sport.
    3. I love fishing
    4. Two years ago I had twin baby cousins born and one of them died at birth
    5. My parents are seprated

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  3. Group is a difficult task to comprhend, we all think the worse will happen. Even, though we all have some preconcieved ideas abour the others in our groups. It takes the willing ability to work with others and listen to them. HAlf the time you might disagree, and thats normal, the ones that work well together get past this first and most difficult barrier.

    My group we all have something unique and important to bring to our proup. That right there is enough to be willing to work, becasue they might have great ideas that we may have never thought of. The first step for any group of people is to communicate, after thatI believe that we might very well blend well togehter.

    People lable me as the loud mouth, and the guy that always has to joke. Unfortunately that is my label nearly all the time, Ive learned to shut my mouths at times. Im a very social person I always have to be taking to someone. Other's might call me and "ASS" and I do understand how I can come off as that, but I just have a rough exterior.

    1. I am a jock
    2. i had a rough childhood, that has helped me to see things differently now.
    3. I live with my aunt and uncle, and I've never met my father.
    4. I love interacting with people.
    5. I enjoy shopping also (a lot).

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    1. Kris,

      I completely agree that in order for a group to work together they have push aside preconceived notions and try to work with each other regardless of our opinions at the start. I think we have to disagree on some things or else we wouldn’t get anywhere with our discussion. Once we as a group starts meeting and actually starts working together, I think we will begin to understand each other a bit more and that’s key to communication. I agree that we are all pretty different, but that should allow for more interesting ideas for our group to come up with.

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  4. I believe our individual groups will go through each of the steps differently. My group will go through some form of developing group-cohesiveness. It will be very different from the Breakfast Club though mostly because we aren’t being punished in detention and we aren’t going to hate on each other. We already have the forming step done, which leads to the storming step to be determined. I can see us disagreeing about little things like how to get started, what each person will contribute to the group, and/or how much effort we each want to put into our project. We have different work ethics and different ways we deal with group projects so it will be interesting to see what our group will put to the table! We will then move on to norming, which will probably entail sharing our opinions, asking opinions or questions of others, and helping to lead each other in the right direction. We will begin to build each other’s trust and become a group that can work together effectively. I’m sure it isn’t going to be as easy as that knowing we are with these people the entire year, but it will make our group stronger as a whole. If we can get to a point where we reach a peak of trust and will, I am sure that we can reach the performing stage. Not all groups can though, which I realize, but hopefully we can create an united group with a common goal.
    With self-disclosure, I know that we can become cohesive. I think self-disclosure is an important aspect in building relationships, especially long-term ones, because it gives people a sense of what kind of person you are based on your past or beliefs. If you don’t share things about yourself it can come off as if you don’t want to participate, you hate your group already, or you think you’re better than your group. It can just be taken in a wrong way! It will help our group bond and make it easy to work together, though. As for the class as a whole, I think it will help too, it might be harder though due to the size of the class and the lack of time we have to get to know each other. Relationships take time and building one with a whole class will take a while.
    1. I am friendly and can work well with others.
    2. I like to laugh and have fun.
    3. I know sign language because my parents are deaf.
    4. I don’t play sports but I like to play games and go outside.
    5. I love food.

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    1. Jenny,
      I agree when you said that the class might have a harder time self-diclosing because of our lack of time together and just the size of the class in general. This can make it harder to get to know people on a more personal level. I know that since I am quite shy towards people I don't know very well, it can take more time to self-diclose and make relationships with people. While we all may not form strong relationships with people here, it could be a great starter point. You will know familiar faces in the hall and it could lead to a better friendship in the future. From what I have experienced so far, I think that our class works well together and we get on well with each other. I do not think that we will have a problem with this.

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  5. I can see my group going through all of the stages as well. I think that the group will endure these stages because we are all different in so many ways..I see our group developing group cohesiveness more once each of us start to get use to eachother and the aspect of us working in a group. Having all this time that we will be spending together is also a pretty big tribute to the group cohesiveness. I definately think that self disclosure will bring our group together because its letting us all know eachother on a somewhat deeper level than we already know eachother.I also think that the self disclosure will help bring our class together as well .. we are spending a lot of time together and during that time we will all grow closer and relationships will blossom.

    These are some things that my group.. and i guess class can know about me.

    1.I am a very artistic person
    2.I love to shop
    3.I love to go hiking,camping, and snowboarding (anything outside really)
    4.I have foster parents
    5.I LOVE ED SHEERAN

    Hmm I don't really know what I would be labled.. I guess I would be one of those really artsy kids you see.. Idk I have had people tell me that when they first met me they had labeled me as a hipster.. or intimidating.. or really stuck up.. but the thing is sometimes I just like to keep to my self.. and I can be really shy.. but not if that makes sense

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    1. Miriah,
      I totally agree with you on our group going through all these stages as the breakfest club. I think we all get along better at the start though then they did! I also agree with the whole us spending lots of time together will help us gel. Along with getting to know eachother, stuff we all have to dig and open up about. These are some very interesting these about yourself that I would have never of guessed. I totally agree on the whole sometimes you just wanna keep to your self thing and then people think you are stuck up.. I do the samething and get told that same thing!!!

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  6. I believe that our group will definitely go through all of these stages as well because it is five new people who have never worked together before now having to finish many tasks together in certain amounts of time. Our group was formed from a list that Monica had and we put circles around who we would like to work with. I hope that our group will not go through a storming stage but there is always a good possibility of a storming period to take place as we get to know each other and as everyone tries to learn each of our individual habits. The most likely that storming will take place in our group is trying to figure out how to get the work finished, who should be the ‘leader’ of the group and each group members thoughts on what work ethic is on how to split up the work. Although these are easy conflicts to run into, by each group member listening to each other and respecting everyone’s opinion I believe we could get our group to get work done without having to go through a storming stage. The next stage we will hopefully reach is the norming stage. This is where we will discuss our own likes and dislike, our own stories and opinions on many topics. During the norming stage each individual needs to work on opening up and telling everyone what they believe so that everyone in the group has a chance to understand where the person is coming from later on in the groups work. Next our group will hopefully reach the performing stage of working together. This is ultimately achieved by working together cohesively while respecting everyone’s individual opinions throughout the work. I believe that our group will do a great job of performing but it will take some time for everyone to get used to working together and learning more about each other.
    I think the most important factor in our group’s cohesiveness will have to be the amount of time spent together and the amount of time we talk about each other to get to know all of the group members the best we can so we know how to work as good together as possible. Also, discussion between all group members will be vital towards getting to know each other. If our group is to work together we all need to buy in to our group and believe that we will be able to do the best we possibly can.
    I also think that the class as a whole will bond together very well as time moves on because we will learn more about each other and become more comfortable around each other. This is very important because if the class doesn’t become comfortable with each other the class will become cliquey and not communicate as well as we are trying to learn how to.
    I would give myself an athletic label while also trying my best to also be an academic. Sports and school are two important aspects of me that come across to most people. I do not know what most people would label me as but my guess would be a baseball player. I do not know what else they would really label me as.
    1. I love playing and watching all sports but mostly baseball.
    2. I love to travel and one goal in my life is to travel to multiple spots on my bucket list.
    3. I live on a farm and enjoy farm life…..but probably not enough to move back to the farm.
    4. I love my family. Family will always be a huge part of my life.
    5. I miss my grandpa like crazy. He passed away this spring from Multiple Sclerosis.

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    1. I agree with what you said about our group going through all the stages. It will take some time but I also agree that once everyone gets to know each other better that will help us be more productive and work better together.

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  7. I predict my group will go through the same stages as the breakfast club did. The forming parts the same because we have never met anyone in our group before and now have to all complete the same task together. I think it will take some time getting to know each other and some time to see how each person works. Hopefully we can be open with each other, and express how we feel. I do not think there will be any implicit norms and we will hopefully respect everyone enough to not yell at each other. I hope we will reach the performing stage and we will be able to all work together well and get work done. I think developing cohesiveness we will need to spend time together outside of class somewhere and do something interesting. I think self-disclosure would maybe help, depending on the person and how they took it. But hopefully everyone would be able to share enough about themselves to help the rest of the group get a better understanding of that person. Self-disclosure would help the class as a whole I think if we could all meet in small groups at first in a non-classroom setting. Five things about myself is, I have four younger brothers and love spending time with them. I recently lost my pointer finger this summer. I enjoy training for skiing all the time, year round. I live in the north woods of Minnesota. Lastly I enjoy spending time with my parents. I would label myself as a handworker at everything I care about. Other people may label me as quiet and shy but also hardworking from the results they see.

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    1. Jake,
      I think that no matter what group someone is in it will take some time to get to know each other. I agree with your point on how groups need to spend time with each other outside of the class room in order for the group to develop cohesiveness.

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  8. I believe our group will be hesitant at first, a little awkward. We have just met each other, we don’t know each other’s work ethic or how we can function in a group effectively. Once we are able to fully understand each other, we are going to be able to accomplish a lot. Each person has a unique quality to bring to the group and that will help us thrive. We will now be able to use everyone’s talents to accomplish our goal. There may be some disagreements along the way but I believe we will be able to compromise for the better of the group. I believe our group will be extremely good in preforming the task put in front of us.
    I see hour group developing cohesive just like the group in The Breakfast Club because we also have “mutual enemy”, this paper. We have a common goal, to create a great paper and learn how we can communicate effectively in a group.
    1. I enjoy volunteering, being active in my community, school and church.
    2. I have an older sister, Amanda, and a younger brother, Mitchell.
    3. I am a huge Johnnie’s football fan.
    4. I get really crazy when I have caffeine.
    5. My grandpa died before I was able to meet him.
    I would label myself as outgoing, energetic and spontaneous. I don’t know if that would qualify as a label or not. I feel like I am able to get along with many people and enjoy meeting new people. Others may label me as shy, and that’s because they don’t know me. Once you know me we will wish you had stayed away!

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    1. I agree when you say our group will be hesitant at first because we have all just met each other and do not know any work ethics we have. I do think that our group will become cohesive and work good together. You made five really good comments and it will help me better understand you.

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  9. I personally believe our group will be alittle quiet and awkward only for first 15 minutes. I am one of those guys that if it gets to awkward or quiet I will break the ice with some sort of communication or noise. Our group has only sat down together for a little bit and i rarely know any of them. The only ime I have ever seen them is every tuesday in our dignitas class. So I am looking forwrd to meeting some new faces. I am almost positive we are all different and have different but yet very important skils to show. This will help us finish our project from 5 different viewpoints which is awesome. I also think that our group with develop and become a group very cohesively. Self Disclosure is something that will most likely come out of each of us, not at the very start because we are not very comftorable infront of one another yet, but eventually will.
    1. I enjoy hockey and play it as well.
    2. I am the only Canadian freshman this year.
    3. I love to go out and be around people (parties, clubs, etc.)
    4. I love to be outdoors and on the lake.
    5. I am very easy to get along with and I like everyone.
    I would label myself as very outgoing and very friendly. I dont hate anone really and dont have any haters. I am very athletic, I play several sports and love excercising. Others label me basically the same way and I am glad to always here that people enjoy being around me!

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    1. Eric,
      I agree with you that our group is made up of very different people and I am really excited about that. I think having 5 different viewpoints is going to help us be efficient and effective. I'm glad that you are a hockey player, because I was also a hockey player for my entire lif eup until this point. That will be something we can connect on, but I am also very excited to bond through our differences. We will not have an awkward group, we will make sure that we all contribute right away. I am really looking forward to it.

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  10. First of all, we have already formed. We have gotten the names, phone numbers and emails for each person in our group. We have already discussed what club will would like to sit in on so that is taken care of as well. The group I am in seems to be a very productive group and I think there will not be any implicit norms. Only the good norms will come from us. And we will undoubtedly go through performing because that is all part of our assignment as a group. I thin our group is going to find cohesiveness through self disclosure. We will spend a good amount of time together, but maybe not as much as some groups because of how different our schedules are. We will be very open with each other and learn things about each other that will push our group in a possitive direction. The class as a whole has already expressed some form of self-disclosure in the activity we did where we introduced ourselves to every single person.

    1. I play baseball here at CSS, and have a very busy schedule because of it. Played hockey in high school.
    2. My brother, Andrew, who is a junior in high school, is my best friend.
    3. My cousin, Bryan McDonough, was killed in Iraq in '06 while on duty.
    4. I have a skin rash called psoriasis.
    5. I have a love for the sport of football, I quit after 8th grade, but I have an abnormal love for it.

    I think of myself as an intelligent, athletic, leader. Others probably think of me as respectful.

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    1. Austin,

      I also agree that there will be no implicit norms among our group. We will definately find cohesiveness through disclosure and I am looking forward to this group project. We will do our best to work around our schedules (baseball, hockey) but we will be good in the long run!

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  11. I believe that my group will go through all of the stages on some level. I also think that with some time and effort from everyone we will be a productive group and getting to know each other better will help accomplish this. Self disclosure will also help our group bond. When we become comfortable with each other and learn more about each other we I believe we will be able to work more effectively as a group. As far as the class as a whole becoming more unified it may take some more time since we will not be spending as much time with those outside our small groups.
    If I had to put myself into one of the categories portrayed in the movie, the one I would say I fit best into is the "athlete", but I don' see myself as the stereotypical "athlete". Also it is hard to say how others see me. You never truly know and different people may see you in different ways.
    Things about me:
    1. I enjoy spending time with my friends.
    2. I love to be outside when the weather is right.
    3. My dogs name is Marty and I miss him. :(
    4. My favorite food is cookies.
    5. I am Justin Timberlake's number one fan.

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    1. I agree that you believe that our groups will generally go through the basic stages that the Breakfast Club went through to some point. Its good that you feel the people in your group seem to be productive and ready to work together, because that is the biggest thing that you must have to form a functional group. It is hard at first to form a group because you may not know each other well, and after time goes on, it will start to come more natural to communicate together. I know how you feel that you do not really fit to be the stereotypical athlete, because people do not always fit in to be what others think they are.

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  12. I think that my group will be a little shy at the beginning because we don't know how we all think and act yet. But I beleive that once we get over that, we can be a fully functional group. As of now, we are working together as a group to plan everything and we are very organized. This is good because then we can accomplish things! I think that our co-hesiveness will come with time, when we are spending more time together and getting to know each other better. As this happens, I think that we will be a stronger group as a whole. This goes hand-in-hand with self diclosure. As we become more comfortable with each other, we can learn to trust each other and respect them for who they are. Our class has gone through a little self diclosure by discussing what we think on issues. I know that I learned some new things about some people based off their responses to class discussions. I think that our class will continue to bond as the year progresses and we get to know each other more. I also think that we are self-diclosing, right now, by posting all of these blogs. Just by scrolling and reading posts, I have learned so much about people and what they believe.

    1.I love my family and friends. We are really close and they mean a lot to me.
    2.I enjoy doing outdoor-sy things. I spend a lot of time at my cabin.
    3.I am a little shy when I first meet someone, but once I get to know them, I am very outgoing and a bit loud.
    4. I like to laugh and have fun. A lot.
    5. One thing that I want to do with my life is to help find a cure to cancer. Too many of my family and friends have died from it.

    I think I would be labeled as friendly and easy going. I always try to be friendly towards everyone, because it is always nice when someone goes out their way to say "hi" to you. It makes both people feel good. I try to be someone that people can rely on and talk to about anything.

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    1. Emily,
      I think the same thing about how the group will develop from being shy to being fully-functional group. I think the more time we spend together as a group and talking it will be become easier for everyone to communicate and be open. I also agree it'll take time to gain each others trust and feel ok talking about anything. I am always hesitate with new people at first opening up, but hopefully that will change once I spend more time with my group. It is interesting how you said by reading everyones blogs you have learned about the people in our class more.

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  13. As a group, we don’t really know much about each other past our names, or maybe a few “fast facts”. I predict that this will change though. I don’t think it will take long to learn more about each other, and get to know our group members and other classmates on a more personal level. A lot of us have never met prior to attending CSS, but we’ll walk out of class knowing a few, if not a lot more, familiar faces. The group will develop a sense of cohesiveness, whether that is to help each other out in class projects, or later just because we care. Disclosure is a huge factor in bringing people together. When things aren’t going quite as smoothly as we want them to be, or when we are having a bad day—those are the times when we will most need someone to talk to. I believe our group members and classmates will eventually become the people we can turn to and trust. When people have things in common, and disclose things that may not always be easy tend to bring people together. It’s easy to relate to someone if you have some idea what he or she is going through. However, this cannot be accomplished if we don’t let others know what’s going on. We have to trust that they will be helpful, because I can’t imagine that the students in the class would intentionally do anything that would be hurtful.

    1. I am very shy.
    2. I tend to over- analyze every situation that can be analyzed.
    3. I have two nieces, ages 8 and 5.
    4. If I could live off ice cream, I would probably do it.
    5. I love spending time in northern WI, especially Eagle River.

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  14. I feel that the group I am will go through all the stages but I feel we will get to the later stages quite quickly so we will eventually be working well together. I believe that we are all different but I feel that because we are different, it will be easier to mix and get to know each other. I like to feel that i am quite unique and different from others but not too different that i dont get on well with people.

    1. I am English
    2. I am on the tennis team here at CSS and really love the sport.
    3. I love music (i dont play an instrument) but i am always singing along to songs.
    4. This is the longest time i have ever been away from home.
    5. My parents foster in England so I have met a lot of people with different backgrounds and upbringings.

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  15. Jacqueline,
    Your thoughts on self-disclosure are dead on in my opinion. People do have bad days and the only way we can help them is if they tell us about it. If someone chooses not to self-disclose, however, what we can do as a group is let them know that we are there as a team and if anything is going on that we are there to help! I also believe that our groups will become tight-knit and eventually we will be able to lean on one another. If we each contribute our best to our own groups then our groups will flourish. Sometimes it is hard to be your best, which I’m sure everyone can relate to. This is why self-disclosure is important and how it brings us together as a whole.

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  16. I belive that our group is very different. But this is a very good thing. Differences are what make us unique and what will bring us together. I'm sure it will be awkward or difficult at first but after a few meetings i have a strong feeling that our group will keep getting closer and closer working together to seize our common goal, which is the group paper. All i really know about my group members are there names and some of them i know where they're from but that's about it and I'm sure all of us are in the same boat on that one. By the end of this project i am guessing that we will all be close with eachother and have a feeling of friendship and beloning with everyone in our group. Though we may not have a basket case or criminal in our group i have a feeling this will be like the Breakfast Club and take some time to come together despite our differences but i know it will happen.

    1.I'm a huge sports fan
    2.I'm from as far North as you can get in Minnesota
    3.I love hunting and fishing
    4.Also love Fourwheeling and snowmobiling
    5.I graduated with 22 kids

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    1. I would have to agree with you Mitch on how our differences are going to be what make us unique. If two are alike it may be difficult to get things done because one wants it their way but the other wants it theirs. It will important to have balance in a group, have the jobs evenly split so everyone get the credit. I think it will take us some time to grow as a group and see the particular strengths each person has. It is important for us to know more about each other; therefore, we are able to function on a level that everyone is okay with. I also agree that we will be close and have a feeling of belonging.

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  17. I am not sure if our group with go through exactly what the Breakfast Club went through, because we all are more alike, and we don’t all hate each other. We will go through the basic steps of forming a group; however, I do not see us disagreeing or fighting about anything serious. We all seem to be pretty laid back, not having too strong of opinions and wanting things to be in our way. I can see that just after talking a few times, we respect each other and we want to make everyone happy. I feel that we could probably open up more and express some more feelings in my group, because most of us seem very shy. If we were to open up more, and think that we could make a deep connection.
    1. I love to play and watch most sports, I played volleyball, basketball, and softball in high school. Basketball is my favorite of all sports.
    2. I am from the country so that means I love to hunt, fish, four wheel, dirt bike, snow mobile, and camp.
    3. I have four horses, and I have trained my own horse.
    4. I have a huge family, and they are very important to me. We are all super close!
    5. I am in a relationship and have been in it for about a year now, and we are extremely happy together!

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  18. The group that i'm in seems like a pretty good group, so far we are doing some communicating through text, mostly about our group assignment but we seem to be off to a good start. I feel that my group is going to do quite well throughout the whole year because of the communication we have been doing so far. I think that self-disclosure will really help our group through some choices, the more we know about eachother the more we will be able to make group decisions based on what is betterfor everyone. I also believe the same will happen for theclass as a whole, when we start planning for the final project it will be easier for us to make decisions based on peoples personalities and beliefs.
    1. Likes to play video games
    2. Loves Sci-fi
    3. Does not like country music(but I will tolerate it if i must)
    4. Comes from a small town, so I may not get some things at first
    5. I love being with friends
    I would give myself the label of nerd because i like many nerdy things. I think people would give me the label of nerd because i am quite open about this

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  19. The group that i am in seems like a great group of people that can accomplish almost anything. We are staying in contact through both email and texting. I see great potential in my group because of our cooperation and communication. Learning more and understanding one another will surely not make a group better, but preview great example of what we are trying to prove this year.
    Things about me:
    1. I like to play Video games
    2. Likes to write stories
    3. Enjoys all kinds of music (Big into dubstep)
    4. I am a sprinter in track & field (not college sprinter yet)
    5. Enjoys hanging with friends and meeting new people
    I would not know exactly what people would label me. Im well rounded, i could be a nerd, i could be a small time athlete, etc.

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  20. Luke,
    I like how you are staying in contact with one another. Groups that are in frequent communication are often the ones that do the best. We have grown up in an era that face to face communication can sometimes be our last resort, to communicate. Electronics make it so east to talk to someone around the world at any point of the day.THAT IS CRAZY!!!!

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