Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Blog #4: Developing Your Group




The Breakfast Club takes place at an Illinois high school, where five dissimilar students are sentenced to spend a Saturday detention session together. In attendance is a "princess" (Ringwald), an "athlete" (Estevez), a "brain" (Hall), a "criminal" (Nelson), and a "basket case" (Sheedy). These titles identify the roles the students play during the school week. Because of stereotypes and status levels associated with each role, the students want nothing to do with each other at the outset of the session. However, when confronted by the authoritarian detention teacher (Gleason) and by eight hours of time to kill, the students begin to interact. Through self-disclosure they learn that they are more similar than different. Each wrestles with self-acceptance; each longs for parental approval; each fights against peer pressure. They break through the role barriers and gain greater understanding and acceptance of each other and of themselves. They ultimately develop a group identity and dub themselves, "The Breakfast Club."





1. Discuss the group's developmental stages.



The developmental stages of forming, storming, norming, and performing can be seen in the movie. The group is formed because each student has broken the school rules; they are together because they are all serving detention (except for Allison, who at day's end admits she is there because she had nothing better to do). During the storming stage, both types of social tension are exhibited. Primary tension can be seen in Claire's statement that she doesn't "belong here." It is also evident when Brian gives up his seat to Bender and in Allison's nail biting. Examples of secondary tension include Bender's antagonistic exchanges with Claire, the shouting matches between Bender and Andrew, and Allison's strange outburst during Claire's disclosure about her parents.



Mr. Vernon attempts to set explicit norms by stating that there is to be no talking, no moving, and no monkey business. However, this attempt to establish norms is unsuccessful because the norms are not accepted by the group. Implicit norms develop in the group, such as yelling, questioning, disrespect for authority, and, most notably, self-disclosure. Many of these norms are initiated by Bender, which points to his power, status, and leadership in the group.



Regarding performing, the group ultimately accomplishes its explicit task--writing a detention essay--by assigning it to Brian. The group also has a number of less-explicit goals that it achieves. The most obvious is that they successfully kill eight hours of detention with a minimum of boredom. They perform many of the functions of an encounter group, learning about themselves and each other through intimate self-disclosures. They also band together in a variety of rebellious acts, from roaming the halls to smoking pot. All of these acts suggest a level of "groupness" that develops in a few short hours.



2. What factors contribute to the group's cohesiveness?



The first factor leading to the group's cohesiveness is the amount of time and interaction they have with each other. While time alone does not insure the development of cohesiveness, the group has nothing else to do and plenty of opportunity to talk. After weathering some primary and secondary tension, the group starts to congeal when it identifies a mutual enemy: Mr. Vernon. An early indicator of group identity emerges in Bender's use of "we" as he asks, "Why don't we close that door? We can't have any party with Vernon checking us out." They begin to perform as a group after Bender removes the screw from the door leading to Vernon's office. The other students cover for him when Vernon comes back asking, "How did that door get shut?"



Cohesion is further developed through self-disclosure. Bender gets Claire to self-disclose about her feelings toward her parents. Andrew then turns and asks Bender to tell about his parents. This discussion is critical to the development of cohesion because the group members begin to see the similarity of their struggles and they identify with each other. Later, the group pressures Claire to confess her virginity. An embarrassed Claire calls Allison "bizarre" for lying to force the confession. Andrew replies, "We are all pretty bizarre. Some of us are better at hiding it, that's all." This marks another point of similarity: they all protect their self-concepts by putting on faces in line with the expectations that others have for them. Andrew describes his struggle to live up to his father's athletic expectations and Bender tells of his father's abuse. Thus, two very different characters find common ground, typified by Bender's comment to Andrew: "I think my dad and your dad ought to get together and go bowling."



As they band together to fight against mutual enemies--parents, peer pressure, authority figures, stereotypes, boredom--the Breakfast Club develops into a highly cohesive group.

QUESTIONS!

What stages do you predict your group will go through? How do you see your group developing group-cohesiveness? Do you think self-disclosure will help your group bond? What about the class as a whole?

RESPONSE REQUIRED!

Disclosure is important in team building. Disclose 5 things about yourself that you feel are important about you to your group members. It does not have to be something confidential, just something unique and special about you!

33 comments:

  1. I imagine our group will go through similar stages. I think that the storming and norming stages will be less significant in our group but the forming and performing will be significant. We tried to go to a meeting together and everyone met on time and we did it as a group. Although, there was no meeting scheduled for that day so we never ended up attending. I feel like self-disclosure will really help our group and our class bond, it breaks down barriers.
    5 things about me:
    -I'm pretty sarcastic
    -I like working in small groups
    -I usually sleep on my left side
    -I can take a joke
    -You can ask me anything

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  2. I believe that our group will probably go through a similar experience except on a much smaller level. Although we are all different in our group we are not extreme opposites as protrayed in The Breakfast Club. Also as far as I can observe our personality types are not as escentric and one dimensional as shown in the movie. I imagine that all groups that are formed go through a process of cohesivness whether on a large or small scale. I can see our group developing very smoothly because even after just one meeting I can tell that we are all easy going and open to most ideas and everyone seems interested in sharing the workload. Self disclosure would help our group because we still are somewhat strangers to each other.
    5 things that our interesting about me:
    -I have a dry sense of humor
    -I am very open to talk about any subject
    -I like to stay in shape (or try to anyway)
    -I dont mind writing
    -I like to have ramen noodles for breakfast

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  3. I think that my group will also go through similar stages. From what I see already, there isn’t anyone who is as extreme as the people in “The Breakfast Club.” We all agree about everything that we have talked about so far, and everyone seems to get along quite well. :) We all agree that we should divide the work up evenly and we are going to work well as a group instead of having one specific leader. We are all equal in this group. I think that maybe once the projects start we could butt heads a little bit, but just when expressing our own opinions. I feel that once we all get to know each other we will want to share things about ourselves to explore how different we are from one another. I think my group will be great!
    5 things about myself:
    -I love Disney movies
    -I just discovered my love for Caribou Coffee!
    -I am pretty outgoing
    -I absolutely love candy
    -I love to clean things

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  4. I believe our group will go through most of the developmental stages the Breakfast Club did. We have already gone through a forming stage when we got to know each other and were first introduced to our group. This stage will continue as our group works together. I see us going through the norming and performing stages. The norming will go along with our formation and the performing will be us working together on our group projects. I don’t see as much storming in our group just because so far we all get along really well, but at some point we may butt heads. That adds to our cohesiveness that we all have similar interests and work well together. I think we will become a tight group as our class progresses. I see our class doing the same thing. I think the self-disclosure will only help us get to know each other better and know our strengths and weaknesses.
    5 things:
    -I like to be neat and organized
    -I am really easy going and open to anything
    -I like to have fun and joke around a lot
    -I usually try to see the positives and not be so negative
    -I love watching Jersey Shore

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  5. I think our group members are laid back and extroverted enough to the point where we already passed the forming stage with putting little effort into achieving this. Our group will reach its peak effectiveness by centering around the storming norming and performing stages. Different ideas will be welcomed when trying to address certain problems that we face. We will become cohesive by appreciating what each one of us has to offer the group and by understanding each others strengths and weaknesses. I believe self disclosure will help us come together as a group and class because it will give us an idea of what people's viewpoints are based on their personalities.
    -I always speak my mind
    -I am a fan of constructive criticism
    -I talk a lot
    -I play guitar
    -I will eat any kind of food that is put in front of me

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  6. I predict that my group will go through all the stages. Right down to preforming. We literally need to! Without going through all the stages we wouldn't be able to do our part in getting ready for the All Abilities Ball.
    I think with time, our group will fully develop group-cohesiveness. We obviously wont have a whole lot of it just yet due to the fact we haven't known each other long and have only been in a group with one another for a little over a week now. But I definitely believe that in time, our group will have wonderful group cohesiveness!
    Of course I think self-disclosure will help our group bond. We need to take the time to get to know one another better that way we become more comfortable with one another as well. When we are comfortable with each other we wont be afraid to voice our opinions, and with voicing our opinions it is going to make our group stronger.
    Same with the class as a whole and self-disclosure. The more comfortable we are with one another the better the discussions are going to be.
    My Five Disclosed Things About Me:
    1. I am an outgoing person.

    2. I actually enjoy working in groups. I love to go into something with more than one opinion and different sights on it.

    3. I am a big kidder. (don't take me too seriously)

    4. I love to workout and be athletic.

    5. I like to be organized and plan things out.

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  7. Sydney G,

    I really like what you said about dividing the work up evenly and focusing on working well as a group instead of having one specific leader.
    When you have a specific leader it is kind of difficult for the other members of the group. It almost makes you feel like the leaders opinion is the only one that counts.
    So I definitely agree that dividing up the work evenly is the best idea!

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  8. My group doesn’t have those extreme differences as the five kids in the movie have. We are all different in our own ways, but everyone has their own differences. I think my group will also go through the same type of bonding. I don’t think we’ll go through the storming stage as much though. Working as a group and everyone having their own opinions, I think we will butt heads a little. As for performing, we’ll do just fine. So far we’re working great together. It's awesome.
    Also, as the year goes on, I think not only will the groups become close and cohesive, I think we will as a whole class.
    5 things about me:
    I’m kind of shy
    I like to work in groups
    I like to have fun
    I love to be outside
    I am up for anything

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  9. Stages I think our group will go through are, just getting to know each other and feeling comfortable talking to one another. As we meet more and talk more, we will discover more similarities that make us like a group. Our group will develop group cohesiveness as we learn more about each other. Once there is common ground everyone will have a way to almost stick up for one another because they have the same issues or feel the same way also. Yes, self-disclosure will help our group bond because everyone is different and our differences help bring more to the group. If you had a group of people completely the same with no differences, it would feel like robots, identical and never changing. The class as a whole is the same as a group only just a bigger group. As we develop friendships or acquaintances with our class, the class as a whole will bond.
    1.I may be shy at first, but as I get to know people I have a great sense of humor.
    2.I love water and to fish (I know ironic) and be outdoors.
    3.I like getting things done and in on time.
    4.I love listening to music and drumming.
    5.A word that would describe me is Driven because I am known to set a goal and meet it no matter the circumstances.

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  10. I believe that my group will go through similar scenarios like the "breakfast club", only a lot less exaggerated. We barely know each other, and it is very easy to see that we are all a little uncomfortable, but thats normal, especially for a brand new group of people to form together in order to work together. But the thing is, is that the group needs to go through the "awkward" process of opening up and getting to know each other. That way the possibilities are endless with the possible future progress. Over time, the whole group will bond together and work as one, like close friends!
    1. I am very quiet at first, and a bit shy
    2. I love meeting new people though
    3. When I become more comfortable, I am very enthusiastic
    4. I cannot ever sit still
    5. I enjoy working with others

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  11. I think that the degree of difference in the breakfast club was far greater than the amount of diversity we will face in our group, however, we went through the same developmental stages. We have already completed the forming stage and I think we will go through the norming and performing stages. All members of our group seem to be pretty easy going and I do not for see us having many problems. I think we will divide the work and allow each member to be responsible for the same amount. I am content with the people in my group and think we will work together wonderfully!
    5 Things About Myself…
    1. I am ADDICTED to coffee!
    2. I love kids!
    3. The most important thing in my life is my family!
    4. My favorite color is pink!
    5. I love to run!

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  12. The people in my group are all very different. However, I think it will be a lot easier for us to bond just because we all went into this knowing we will be put into a group with different people. In the movie they were being punished and felt more alone. They went to each other for comfort. We will be a more professional group because we will be completing tasks and doing projects. There won't be need for as much emotional support. Im not saying we can't become close friends through this class but it just won't be as much of a necessity.

    1. I act like a 2-year-old most of the time
    2. I'm very sarcastic
    3. I LOVE bacon
    4. I am super hyper pretty much all of the time
    5. I sing a lot... Even if I know I sound bad

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  13. Hailey,

    You drink 6 cups of coffee everyday!! Haha. Anyways, I like how you have such a positive attitude towards your group. It's great to be confident and upbeat, I think it keeps the other group members positive too. Also, I love how you said family is very important to you.

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  14. I think our group will go through similar stages. We have already begun to get to know each other, and I think our group will “mesh” well. We have similar interests, but our differences will also bring us closer together. I think as time goes on our class as a whole will come together and get to know each other better, especially as we begin to plan for the All Abilities Ball. We will have to trust and rely on each other to do the tasks we are assigned to do so that we will have a positive result. Self-disclosure helps you open up to people around you and gives others an opportunity to learn about who you are. It also allows you to compare differences and similarities, as well as to learn more about a persons’ personality. Listing unique attributes opens up conversations and allows us to be more comfortable around each other.

    5 Things About Me:

    1) I am a die-hard Boston Celtics fan
    2) I always sing in the car when I drive
    3) My favorite drink is ice cold Duluth tap water
    4) I’m left handed
    5) I like working in small groups

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  15. I too, believe our group will go through similar stages as seen in the breakfast club. I think we will go through the stages of storming and forming by disagreeing at times, but always coming back together. I see our group forming together by spending time and giving our opinions. Yes, I think self-disclosure will help bring our group together as well as the class. We need to learn about each other so we know how to work together. Overall, I'm excited to get to know my group and class better, and become good friends with everyone!

    5 things about me:
    1. I love most sports
    2. I'm a very good listener
    3. I look for the positive in everything
    4. I love cats :)
    5. Naps are my favorite thing

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  16. Laura and Teagan,

    I also love singing in my car and even if I sound horrible! Haha! Laura, I also love how your favorite drink is Duluth tap water, haha, I would have to agree and say there is nothing better than ice-cold water.

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  17. Sydney G,

    I agree with your comment about the benefits of not having one specific leader in your small group, however having a leader can also be beneficial when things need to get done quickly and efficiently. It’s nice to have a group though where everyone contributes equally.

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  18. Natalie,

    I like what you said about self-disclosure and how it can help the groups effectiveness tremendously. In order to fully understand each other, we all need to become comfortable with each other's personalities. If we don't know our group members well, we'll never understand each others mannerisms which may lead to constant unnecessary arguments. I think being comfortable with one another will allow us to say whatever we feel and ultimately have good group cohesiveness.

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  19. I think our group just like any other group will go through points where we may be a little uncomfortable with each other and won’t want to offend someone because we don’t know them yet. I think that it will take us some time to figure out how to all work together because everyone has their own expectations for their work and each one of us will have to make sure the work we do is acceptable to everyone. Once we break that barrier down and really get to know each other we will see that we are all pretty similar. I can see my group developing group – cohesiveness by just getting to know each other and developing that trust with one another which will help us transition to our group really bonding and being comfortable with opening up to each other over this year. I think our class is awesome! We are all so nice and I can already see that a lot of us are getting to know each other really quick and being comfortable around each other.

    1.I wish I could have hot chocolate from caribou coffee every morning!
    2.I actually love sitting in class and taking notes in a lecture setting
    3.I love to eat peanut butter and vanilla ice cream with my grandpa
    4.I wish I knew how to play the piano
    5.My favorite place to go is borders

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  20. Kelsey, I also am a big fan of naps and like how you put the problem of disagreeing but figuring out a way to come back together. Sydney, I also love Disney movies. Finding Nemo and the Lion King are my favorites.

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  21. Hailey,

    I can relate to your comment because in my group there arent any extreme personalities like in the Breakfast Club either. Although that is true there will probably be an adjustment period for both of our groups but probably on a smaller level.

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  22. Teagan,

    I like your observation that our group assimilation is different then that of the Breakfast Club because in the movie they went to each other for comfort because they were being punished, but our group meshing is more professional. Also i love bacon very much too!

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  23. Britt Fish,
    Those are also two of my favorites! :) Teagan I found it hilarious that you said you act like a two-year-old most of the time :) but i also liked how you looked at it from more of a professional standpoint because that is what this is helping us become!

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  24. Tim
    I agree with how you view our group, we all seem to get along pretty well. I also like your view of food, I share the same view. I am not picky and will eat almost anything.

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  25. Sidney G.
    I love disney movies too! they are honestly my favorite thing to watch. i dont have a favorite one but i am a huge fan of the original disney movies as well as the new ones.

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  26. Natalie,

    I agree with your comment on self disclosure. I think as we get to know each other better in our small groups and large class group, we will be able to voice our opinions more and have more meaningful discussions. I think everyone is a little timid and shy like you said in the beginning but it will only get better with time.

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  27. The group that I am in is just great! We all seem to get along great and respect each other. We all seem to be pretty similar, but at the same time I can see some differences. I feel that we are all at the point where we look at those differences in a good way though. They will be able to give us different opinions and points of view, and they will be able to make our work the best. So far there hasn’t been anything that has made a situation uncomfortable and I feel as though we all feel okay to express how we feel without being belittled. As far as trusting and relying on each other I think we are all pretty responsible and we won’t have any problems with that. We all have each other’s back :)

    Five Facts about ME!!

    1. My biggest dream (besides my career dream) is to learn how to surf!!!
    2. I HATE HATE HATE HATE ketchup and think it is the worst thing on the Earth!
    3. My dream is to live in California or New York one day (preferably California)
    4. I am a neat freak and I like things to be really organized (in all aspects of my life)
    5. I plan on trying to learn how to snowboard this winter (it should be interesting)
    6. One more thing... I LOVE to talk :)

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  28. Hailey, Nicole, and Kelsey

    Nicole- I just discovered this past year that peanut butter and ice cream are a steller combination together! It is really good with chocolate chip ice cream too!

    Hailey- I think you are CRAZY over the fact that you love to run! I love to stay active and work out but I HATE running lol

    Kelsey- Napping :) I never took naps until college! Now... I just LOVE them!

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  30. Working in a group is very much like playing a team sport; heavily depended on teamwork. I am a big soccer fan and I have been playing soccer for as long as I can remember. Like many other team sports, soccer relies on teamwork and trust. Individual quality does not matter as much. A very prominent European soccer team in recent years gathered some of the most decorated players from all over the world. People had expected them to win considering the amount of talent they had. However, that superstar team lost to another team who did not have individual talents but had extraordinary teamwork as they had been playing as a team for many years. My point is, playing as a team is something that gets better through time as we get to know our teammates and learn to trust them. Similarly, working effectively in a group is something that will grow and get better over time. Our group is very new as of now and we haven’t actually got to know each other all that well. I believe that we are in the early stages right now and that will change over time. Self disclosure will obviously help our team work as learning about the strengths and weakness about each other will help earn trust and eventually make us work better as a team; same goes to the class as a whole. Over time, as we work together, we will become better team players as we get to know our teammates.
    I hate bugs.
    I enjoy reading history and listening to classical music.
    I like making friends.
    Sometimes, I am very lazy.
    I have lived exactly half of my life away from my home/family.

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  31. Based on how conflicting our schedules are, I find that our group is going to be one of extreme ups and downs. I'm not saying that we can't all work together, we can, but it might just take a bit more effort on everyone's part to get everything together. I honestly don't see our group as cohesive, yet anyways. We just get this project and only know what three minutes of speed meeting could tell us about each person. If we all found some common ground from which we can work, I think our group could be awesome. I'm not sure if "self-disclosing" is the answer, but being more open about our opinions and speaking our minds would be of necessity in and out of the group.
    5 disclosures about me:
    1. I'm most comfortable at home.
    2. I don't like to talk a lot, I like to listen (sometimes it's the other way around)
    3. I'm very assertive (more with school stuff)
    4. I can normally tell how a person is feeling (upset, angry, or 'couldn't give a crap less')
    5. I love to volunteer

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  32. Nicole,

    Playing piano is something that I wish I could do too. I think it takes some kind of skill, that I don't have. I hope you learn to play someday. I think it's one of those calming activities that helps everyone in their lives. And I like your insight of our group. It might just be a "getting to know each other" barrier that is hindering our group-cohesiveness. And is the Borders you're talking about on highway 105???

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  33. I think that our group will go through the similar stages as the breakfast club. All of us aren’t as different as the members of the breakfast club, so I think that we will develop a little faster than they did and wont go through as many struggles and differences. I think that we will develop group cohesiveness good because in our first meeting we all gathered on time and the meeting went smoothly. I think self disclosure will help our group out because it will give us a better bond and we will become closer and a much better group to work with and be around. Self disclosure would help the class because some people don’t know people as well as others and it would help us become a whole rather than just groups.

    5 things:
    Work good in groups
    Can be funny at times
    Like to have fun
    Like to write
    I am positive

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